Remember, how we always comment on some couples as made for each other’ couple. And we just wonder how do they do it.
So why can’t we also become a made for each other couple? What is stopping you? Do you believe you do not have what it takes to be one? Ok, so if you answered yes to my questions, then I am going to share with you some tips and suggestions on how you can also become the perfect couple or like we all call it #madeforeachother couple.
Firstly I would like to acknowledge one common mistake we all make when in a relationship is we try to impose our likes and dislikes on to each other. We forget that each of us has unique personalities. Even our siblings differ from us in so many choices, then how can we expect that from a different person. So, accept to like the other personal choices, be it in their choice of clothes or food preferences.
Secondly, don’t try to control your partner. Give them their space and freedom when needed. Believe me, it is suffocating to be controlled. Your partner would always dread your presence. Give each other the freedom to hang out with their friends and go on trips with their friends. And yes, make time to go enjoy as a couple also. Humans are social animals, we need everyone in our lives. We are not fulfilled with spending time with just one person no matter how loving and caring they are. We need parents, siblings, friends, neighbours, that’s what makes life beautiful.
Thirdly, give your partner the freedom to dream and follow their dreams. Sometimes you will have to help them achieve their dream. Be that partner who grows together, giving importance to each other’s dreams and passions in life. Just like you are flourishing let your partner also flourish.
Relationships are not easy and not everyone’s the same. We all are unique in every way. That’s what makes us unique. So do not try to force changes on your partner. It only hurts the relationship. But loving your partner for who they are is the biggest step you can take to make your bond stronger. Loving them and supporting them for who they are. And you both grow and go through the journey of life together. Giving each other their space. Nobody wants to be controlled and be told what to do in life. And imagine living with someone like that. Anyone would want to run away from you
Any relationship will take time.
Lastly, we all have flaws. Couples shouldn’t expose each others flaw to anyone outside. It is disrespectful to a relationship. Which brings me to the importance of being honest and true to each other. No matter what to be supportive of each other. Believe me, when you give respect you get respect, even if you are a couple, even if you promised the vows. You have to be there for each other and yes tolerate some of their likes as well.
These are my secrets for making your relationship a perfect ‘made for each other couple’ by loving each other’s imperfections.
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